I am 45, in a blended family dynamic. This is the first relationship that I have had to take on 2 adult children (daughter 22, son 21). I relocated my life from Texas to Maryland to be with this man..before his daughter was told about me she already hated me..The day before Thanksgiving he went to pick her up from her moms for the holiday..she's really into the Asian culture so I ran around looking for the things I needed to make Asian food.