big freaking surprise! CPS did NOTHING
daycare lady called and reported monday, still today no word...so i suggest to dh to call cps to see if claim is made, they say NO.
dh is "bothered" when he calls me to say there is no report, (internet poker sounds in background)
i say, what are you going to do? response: ugh, i dont know?
UM wtf, how about going up to daycare picking up ss and asking daycare lady why the hell she never filed a report?! how about lifting a fuking finger to do something to try and get to the bottom of this! Instead of me doing every fuking thing!
5 min later i call back, hes at the place picking up ss, daycare lady says the asked her 14 questions, in one of them she explained that ss is very badly behaved when in care of bm, but very good with dh.
no his behavior is not drastically different in the last two weeks
no there are no marks or bruises on him
CPS SAYS: oh ok, no marks or bruises, no need to investigate even though hes saying stuff. we will send you a letter in 10 days to state that you called to make a report
waddy fuking do da!
how sad, you know if bm called, cps would have been at our house in 2 seconds!
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So sorry....
I have been in your exact spot and its not fun
In my experience it is true that CPS does NOTHING.... then a child dies and the state scratches their head over how this happened.... I saw a story the other day.... I tried to find it again but I couldn't.... Anyway, the just of it that this BM was psycho.... her ex had moved on and had a new girlfriend.... gf and bd complained to CPS over things the boy was saying to them (in reference to abuse).... CPS did not take it seriously because there were no bruises.... bd files for custody (fearing for his son's safety)....
BM then kills the son.... she then writes a long letter to bd explaining that she killed him because she is not going to allow him to move on with gf and their son as a happy family.... she is not going to allow him to raise their child with another woman she killed the boy then herself.....
OH!!
and as far as what Lauren in saying.... MAN IS SHE EVER RIGHT.... I was overly involved in trying to protect my ss while ex-dh (no kidding) played internet poker all the time.... I stressed, wrote the state for help, followed up, sent emails, wrote more letters, etc.... This literally drove my life to the point that my own kids were neglected.... TRY your very harderst to back away from the situation and let dh choose whether or not he wants to fight.... I know its hard.... I could never do it.... but you will slowly drive yourself insane if you don't step back....
What's happening with court date?
smnikki, last month you posted that BM filed for mediation and full custody... any court date set? Can any of these accusations be brought up during mediation?
oct
mediation is the 6th, and court is the 26th. Dh is not agreeing to anything in mediation, and we are going to use it against her in court. Since we/daycare did the right thing in calling cps, i think it is still something that the judge should know about what ss is saying goes on over there. Along with all of our other evidence and issues with her and her bf, hopefully the judge will take it more seriously than cps....
i always tell my self to step back and let dh do it, but then i feel like hes just a typical man and isnt good at getting all the details and holding everything together, sometimes i feel like i handle everything else, so does he think ive got all this under my belt too?
honestly, the reason i do all this is because i do care for ss, and also, because i dont want bm getting so much as one more inch to mess with our lives!
CPS is a total JOKE. I have
CPS is a total JOKE. I have been dealing with them since the end of JULY because my BABY was hurt at a daycare. They have done nothing but LIE about what they are doing... 2 months later... and NOTHING. I finally kept calling around looking for someone in charge... called the cops myself, and still as of now NOTHING. I tried contacting local news stations and newspapers... none of them will touch the story. It is ridiculous. They are ridiculous. Sorry this is WAY O/T but I feel your pain and this is a really sore subject with me right now.
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