Does it get easier or harder? We aren't married Yet...but soon to be. We both already put all our money together struggling to make it by. His daughter (8) is going to join us in October, for the school year. I am scared. I love her to death. She is funny and fun. But when she is around he gets weird...he wont hold my hand kiss,touch, or even say he loves me. Its odd because every time she leaves he gets overly affectionate ...to make up for the lost time. But if she is here all the time...what will that be like?