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So much for trying to help

So the talk I had with SD last visit (detailed in last blog), seems to have backfired. DH went to pick her up & no one was home. DH found out from SIL that BM called her & spoke about SD not wanting to come here anymore, this is strange to me as SIL & BM have no relationship. BM went on to say that SD doesn't like school (grade 1)is getting in trouble at school and is not sleeping well....SIL got the impression that BM was trying to blame the visits with her father as the reason.

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Stepped right in the middle if it

Have not posted a blog in a long time. I have for a long while been semi disengaged in my relationship with SD6. I have been a spectator, watching things unfold, making silent bets on terrible outcomes. This worked for me, as far as my stress levels. I looking back now realize that I started this when I decided to cut BM out of my life.

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Just A Mess

I am at a loss.
Recap of past:

DH had a baby with Moosecow, court ordered CS starts & EO Sunday supervised visits in her home for an hour supposed to take place.

Moosecow made it very difficult for DH to see the baby.
DH gave up after several months.

Two years ago (baby then 4 now known as Wonderchild) Moosecow decides she needs a break eow end. Court order is not changed to reflect this verbal agreement.

Moosecow starts asking questions about me, such as my maiden name.

Oh look! A train wreck! Holloween incident aftermath.

I am a bit confused, not sure of the real motive behind Moosecow's actions. She calls last night, I see the caller ID is displaying Moosecow's #. I toss the phone to DH, he's too slow to answer, I then do the obvious next move & whip out my cell pass it to him like a hot potatoe counting to three. Suprise! The phone rings! DH talks to her. The convo takes a turn for the worse & DH says "You created this monster, you deal with it."

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Halloween Incident

So DH was supposed to have Wonderchild for Halloween, his weekend to have her.Now knowing Moosecow I knew this would not happen. Sure enough she calls three days before to say Wonderchild is too sick to go to Daddy's she wouldnt want our kids getting whatever illness Wonderchild has.

First how the hell does Moosecow know three days ahead of time Wonderchild will still be ill.

Second when has Moosecow EVER cared about possibly spreading disease to our kids. She does it all the time, suddenly she cares?

Intro blog

My situation is a bit weird and odd (well I think so anyway lol). I met my now DH before SD was born, three months before to be exact. The story is he dated her for a couple of months, she said she didnt want kids, she got pregnant and he broke up with her. I digested this info and figured okay so what I have two kids from my first husband, at my age most men would have kids.

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