Ok. I need all the advice I can get. My husband has an 8yo daughter and 16yo stepdaughter (which he has been in her life since she was 3years old.) He has been divorced from their mom for 6years now. He gets BOTH girls every other weekend and every Tuesday- although only his bio child is court ordered. I get really frustrated that the ex doesn't realize that the 16yo is not his responsibility to run around to sports during the week, giving allowances to, etc. Am I being selfish? I can understand him running all around for his bio child but not the former stepkid. He has a new life now.