Economics, love, involvrnent and control...
DW spent $25k on lawyers this year to win a custody battle. Financially, it was s drain. She also pays the phone bill. I am NOT saying she should, but she does. I went to the phone store and inquired about separating two of the lines, DD15's contract is up as is mine. To remove those two lines from my our current plan would reduce that bill by $100 per month .It would cost me $90 2 maintain those lines under another plan. It would also remove any questions regarding who is using the data on the phone plans.When I brought up the idea of separating two of the phones to my wife she got defensive, said that I could just give her the hundred dollars and hung up the phone.
This weekend my son has a wrestling tournament 200 miles away. It is close to my family.Due to other commitments SD15 can not attend. Due to logistics wife SS11 would have to come late and miss the first evening and leave on Saturday directly after wrestling ends. My bios and I are going to stay with family on Saturday night, fish Sunday and return home Sunday evening. I suggested to wife that it is not an efficient use of resources for her to drive so much for on such a short trip. I am sure she feels excluded and she will not discuss this topic with me. She is currently not talking to me anyway because...
Last night DW was due to return home to her office at 11 o'clock p.m. She needed a ride from work to home. At 9 o'clock I called and suggested that I could leave a car for her, instead of having to go there at 11 o'clock or later to pick her up. She responded that if I did not want to come and pick her up she would just walk home. I said that would not be necessary and that I would pick her up and when she arrived. At 10 o'clock I drove to her work and texted her to say that I was there waiting for her and that it was not necessary to call me to let to tell me to come and get her. I then turned on the radio and took a nap. I awoke to see two missed calls and then received a message saying she had walked home. there are only two places I could have been parked and she could drive right by either of them. So she apparently walked home 5 miles in the dark in sub freezing temperatures at this point. She is 44 years old and is old enough to determine what she wants to do. I droveh I tried to call her and got her voice message I drove home, tried to call her again send her a text saying see you soon and went to sleepshe slept on the couch and is currently not talking to me she will not address the phone situation or the wrestling trip I am going to go on the wrestling trip when I decide and come back when I decideit is up to her to choose whether or not she wants to let me know her plans what else can I do
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I just learned that DW pulled
I just learned that DW pulled up beside me as I was sleeping in the car, got out and unlocked the gate, drove in and got out and relocked the gate without ever looking in the car which was running with no visible occupants (I had the seat reclined and the radio and heater on and was asleep). She called twice with no answer- I must have hit the wrong button and turned the ringer down. She then walked out the gate past the same running and seemingly unoccupied car, I guess again without checking it. She was angry that I was playing some "game" (she really thinks I am an asshole, apparently) and started walking towards home. She texted me, "I walked home." The "DROID" noise woke me up, I read the message and went home. She says I drove by her, and that is entirely possible. My texts and calls to her supposedly went unanswered because her phone died, which is also entirely possible. Guess who is in the doghouse for not worrying enough about his significant other. It was in the high 20's, but calm. We lived in a small quiet town. DW is healthy and capable of that walk with no problem. She says she was cold, and I believe her. It is a natural consequence of that particular decision. Once when I was about eight I announced I was going to run away. My mom helped me pack, told me a couple of things to avoid and send me on my way I got about a half mile with my bag of clothes and thought, 'this is stupid' and turned around. Maybe that is a lesson more people need to learn.