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Score one for FDH

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Thu, 01/23/2014 - 8:25am

FDH has had several conversations so far with FSD15 both in person and on the phone. He has made it very clear to her that I am not going anywhere, she has changed drastically in her attitude and demeanor towards us, and he wants the old FSD back. So there is SOME progress there as I mentioned in my last blog.

And the band played as the Titanic sank

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Wed, 01/22/2014 - 6:01am

I would like my old stepdaughter back please. Not this snotty, insolent BM worshipper.

FDH saw kids for dinner on his nightly visitation. Ironically the FSS12 listened to everything he had to say and is horrified at how hurt and upset I am. He's been texting me since last night just to talk and joke around. His sister? Oh, she "listened" supposedly.

The hurt is now fast dissolving into anger. It's all about how vicious I am to precious mommy.

Needed: tips on disengaging

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Sun, 01/19/2014 - 9:13am

Been waffling on disengagement. Need some stories on what worked for you, what didn't, why did you feel it necessary to disengage, and has it caused worse problems for you with DH.

Bear in mind please that my own disengagement has to do with Golden Uterus BM. I actually am rather close with two of my future skids and the third one I used to be but she fell victim to PAS by BM and wrote her father off years ago unless she needs money or it's Christmas/her bday (don't screw with the gifts).

Methinks thou protest too much...

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Sat, 01/18/2014 - 10:11am

Weirdness continues. BOOP BOOP BOOP goes the radar....!!!

Ok, at basketball game right now for FSS12. BM had to work this morning. She asked if FDH could pick up FDS and take him to and from game. Not our weekend but we were going to game anyway so he says yes. She texts back Thank You. In those two little words, we know bullshit is afoot. She has actually used those words like about four times in the last five years. She's an excellent example of the entitled Golden Uterus who never says thank you.

Thank you all!!!

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Thu, 01/16/2014 - 9:07pm

Just wanted to say a heartfelt thank you to all the posters who share their joys and screaming nightmares being part of the step world. Thank you for making me feel normal (well in my case that's a relative term Smile ) and accepting me and my odd humor. I am learning so much and for once since I started this roller coaster, I feel like someone truly understands me, empathizes with my anxiety and anger, and knows similar insanity from a BM.

Why do I HAVE to love his kids? Why does he HAVE to love mine? Just pondering...

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Submitted by SituationalTourettes on Thu, 01/16/2014 - 4:25pm

Isn't it fascinating that simply by virtue of dating or marrying a man with a SK that even though we would never have any relationship with the SKs at all if we ever met them another way, there is this expectation by some people, even sometimes the man himself, that we HAVE to love and care about them? (Posted this as a response on someone else's blog and got me thinking it would make a good blog entry)

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