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some one should tell BM that Facebook is public even when its 'private'

SisterNeko's picture

Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 05/27/2013 - 8:46pm

I see this on here a lot, seems most BM don't realize that what they post on Facebook - even if you account it marked 'private' - it still has a way of getting around.

Some one approached DH at work the other day and asked him innocently enough if his ex-wife (BM) was still married. (She re-married about 1.5 years ago). DH said as far he knew she still was...why? Well apparently BM posted some photos of her drunk and dancing with guys on Facebook and they weren't from the concert that she got busted doing the same thing at by other co-worker a few weeks ago, who ask her husband about it.

Now I can't see BM's Facebook (not that I want to) because she blocked me after I called her on threatening me 2 years ago to her 'friends' on Facebook little does she know that I only know because one of her 'friends' told DH at work.

Not that DH and I care that she is doing the same thing to her new hubby that she did to DH, which serves him right after all that is how he meet her. But we are worried how this will affect sKids and trying to prepare for the 'bad' news of a divorce. We have suspected problems for some time, but again it's none of my business.

I Just think BM need "Facebook for Dummies"

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oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Mon, 05/27/2013 - 10:57pm

My idiot SS27 only accesses FB from his cell. He has no clue that when he posts about calling in sick and then posts about how he's been high all day that anyone can read it.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 6:45am

I personally dont side bar my FB posts for my ex husband or his wife considering my life, and my actions are of no concern to them.

Maybe she just doesnt care what you think or know.

FB makes this shit all worse. I had someone try to talk to me the other day about a FB post of my ex. I simply raised my hard and said thanks but not interested.

Why did your DH even care to listen?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 05/28/2013 - 7:59am

I am actually more interesting in if she cares if her husband knows, or his co-worker since he works with DH as well. Maybe even his family. Assuming she is friend with her husband and/or his family on Facebook.

I post whatever I want with the understand that once posted it generally becomes public knowledge. The kind of stuff that I don't care what any one sees including BM.

She went off on DH about something that I said on Twitter when we first started dating but it wasn't even about her but she thought it was. And what she told DH that I said was NOTHING like what I actually said. I showed him the post. So now when I make vague posts about life in general I expect phone calls - lol.