Things have gotten weird around here lately. I am trying to figure out if BM is playing mind games with us or if she is really just stupid.

The most recent was BM's MOTHER called the house yesterday. She left a message because we were not home, not that I would have picked up, I don't answer BF's house phone unless I know the number. She rambled on about getting snacks and bringing them over to our house. She wanted to know what day would be good so she could take them to work with her and put them in the freezer. I told BF Sunday after 5 when we take them to BM's House would be a good day. I added that I was not/am not comfortable with her coming over when BF is not there. Since I don't really know her, I think I meet her once. And I know it would not go well because I assume she would bring them after work and I don't like for the boys to have junk food right before dinner. And SS4 is no dumby, he has BM and her mother wrapped around his little finger so of course he is going to latch on to her and throw a fit when she tries to leave.

Why is she bringing snacks - I have no flipping clue. Gonna leave that one up to BF to figure out. I told he to tell her that we are busy all week and SS6 won't even be here. I dropped him off today to spend a few days (alone) with BF's mom "Nana".

BM meanwhile is on my S*** list. She asked us last week if I would watch the boys for her after school, when I agreed (against my better judgement) She changed her mind and was 'unsure' about what she was doing. So they start school a week from tomorrow (her week) and She still has not called the bus service to set it up. BF asked her last night and she was still unsure. I told him my offer expired last night at 9 pm. Ugh she really needs to get it together. I am sure the bus service needs a little notice to change things. S it stand SS4 is set to be dropped off at our house every day and SS6 is set to be dropped off at our house on our weeks and near her house on hers. it's really screwed up, BF called and fixed our weeks and told her to call them.

Also annoyed that the last few times BM has dropped SS4 off crying and acts like it is because he does not want to be here, but according to SS6 they had just come from the park/fair/lake and SS4 didn't want to leave that location.

I am leaning more toward her being stupid, because none of this makes a lot of sense. You know that old saying "I refuse to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person"? Yeah it's like that. but when SS6 made a statement to the affect that he would miss me when I left (BM doesn't think BF and I are going to last) I did tell him that I wasn't going any where and would be around FOREVER. SS6 loves me despite the trash BM feeds him. Hate to say it but SO glad he is with Nana right now, he has been attached to my hip since Sunday Night. He is dying for attention, poor guy. I give him what I can.