Hi…I read here mostly and have posted a time or two. This is going to be really long. However, I believe to lay it all out so that you all understand what I’m dealing with.
I need some advice re: Thanksgiving…

Back-story…am with my S/O close to 9 years now. He has 3 adult toddlers…SD33 (skank), SD29 (recovering drug addict and alcoholic…maybe?) and SS25 who lives with us (high function Asperger’s).
I have to BS’s 33 & 28 (attorney and business owner… respectively) I also have 2 grands 11 & 2 months).