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Entitled Adult SD27....

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It amazes me the self-entitlement that SD has even during her late 20’s. I’ve been in her life since she was 8 years old and have always done my best for her.  A few years ago she wanted her father and I to cosign for a car and commented that her mother would make the monthly car payments. Mind you H has been paying CS, so where does the money go is beyond us. Her mother the same person that had to file for bankruptcy and had issues paying her own bills, we were supposed to take her word that she would pay a car note?  That was hilarious if you ask me.

If Step Kids Only Knew.....

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I find it interesting how our step kids have no idea just how much we do for them. We put up with so much BS and took/take it all in stride in order to create a peaceful home. I can make a long list of all the things I've done for my SD and have never received so much as a thank you. I did it because I wanted to and was genuine about it. Looking back if I had any idea just how much she disliked me I would have disengaged and saved my money a long time ago.

Disengaged from H's daughter...

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Hi Everyone, I've been disengaged from my SD for 6 months now. This isn't the first time we've gone long periods of times of no contact. The last fall out we had she was very disrespectful and basically cursed me out and all h@ll broke loose. I told H that until he addresses what's going on and get to the root of the problem that she is not allowed in our home. I can not and will not allow someone to disrespect me in my house. I also have refused to go to any functions or vacations where I know she will attend. I need to do this for my own sanity.

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