Hi, I’m having a difficult time and needing some advice.  I have been married for 8 months to a man that has 3 kids with a lady that he never married.  One child is sick and the mother stays home with her and the other two kids.  My issue is my husband pays all of there bills. Electric, water, gas, phone , cable , internet... everything.  Plus gives her child support.  She calls and he does all the grocery shopping... I even help pick up items and meds.  Take kids to the eye doctors.  My husband gets calls from her asking to repair the heater or air conditioning.