Up Date on What BM Sent
She really is that stupid....... Oka so we got the package all it is was a Declaration stating her old custody and visitation percentage which she stated wrong anyway she has 12% not 20%.
Any ways the CS agency goes by what is actually happening not what the other court says on paper. Then she was stupid enough to agree with the recommendation of the CS Agency’s Amount which was based on her unemployment info that she sent in.... But here is the kicker! She is now working an sent in her new employment info so that number that she is agreeing to will be going up about $300 more then they stated it would be.
Oh and she added in a email that I sent her back in July, Where I reminding her to pay her child support cause we were getting nothing and I also stated that she should just let me legally adopt the kids since I am financially supporting them any way. She trying to say that stuff like this prevent her from having a relationship with her kids. She also wants to make it know to the court that all the Family Members that wrote a declarations are aligning with BH, SO EVERY ONE IS LYING TO PREVENT YOU FROM TALKING OR SEEING YOUR KIDS???? Dose she realize how crazy she sounds.
Also she want the court to acknowledge that she is a single parent going through these ruff economic times. All your kids live with their fathers!!!! HELLOOOOOOOOO!!! YOU NOT EVEN AN MOM ANYMORE. JUST CAUSE YOU GAVE BIRTH TO THEM DOESN'T MEAN Anything!!!!!
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Sometimes perhaps they need
Sometimes perhaps they need reminders, our doesn't pay either, and she certainly had no problem raging at my husband when her payment was even a day late, and that wasn't any fault of his, it was the CS department, BM owes the state minimum $50 per month and is responsible for 50% of any of SS6's expenses, BM works off and on and basically tells us she refuses to pay "ANYTHING" Now they are taking her $23.54 out of her pay every two weeks, she's probably going to quit soon, she works no longer than 6 months at any place...
Lazy and Selfish is what they
Lazy and Selfish is what they are!!!!
She knows she's supposed to
She knows she's supposed to be paying. She's choosing not to. A reminder from SM is only adding fuel to the fire. Not to mention the suggestion that she simply give up any rights to her children. Sounds like you're trying to undermine her as a parent, & that you ARE trying to interfere in the relationship she has with her kids. If you truly feel this conversation had to happen, it should be done between BM & the father of the children. What would make you think you'd have any success going about it the way you did??? You're being as ridiculous as you are claiming she is.
If she's ordered to pay & she isn't, let a summons from the court be her reminder.
Because I have no problem
Because I have no problem taking legal responsibility of her kids, if your not going to have a relationship and your not going to pay to take care of your resonsibility then why not give her that option to opt out of her responsibility all together.
We don't go to Custody court, she never fight for her right to see the kids it's all about money, we don't need it and would rather have her out of our lives completely. It was a one time thing, and when her kids read her myspace page a read how she is living up water skeing and hanging our with friends and they asked why, that sparked a flame in me. I hate to see them cry or feel the way they did when they saw that.
I think in my mind that would get her mad enough to say hey maybe I should call them or go and see them or help them....... but it did nothing.
At least the court will see that I am willing to take the responbility fully, and If we continure to get draged to CS court again we will just ask for her to sign over her legal rights in exchange for us closing the case and not collecting a penny more.
I agree with the others. You
I agree with the others. You should stay out of it. All communication should go through the dad. I understand feeling the way you do, but, still not your place. He was married to her, he should deal with her.