I have a 19 year old step daughter, who hasn't graduated high school. She has no job! But she is madly in love with her future husband. And too top this off, they are fixing too have a baby! Now what is wrong with this picture? They are both irresponsible. Neither one knows anything about providing a home for a baby. My step-daughters room looks like a cyclone has hit it more than once! But then on the other hand, she says her boyfriend is a slob when it comes too house cleaning! Thought you had too be able too do something right before you could show or tell someone how too do something?