I am not sure of all the jargon on here so I will just put this out there and hopefully get some feedback.  I married my husband 4 years ago and he had 3 grown kids.  34,32, and 19 at the time.  We had a great time and everything was wonderful.  We got married in 2018 and seemed like things changed a lot.  Don't get me wrong, I love his kids, but they have major issues, with alcohol abuse, drugs, anger problems.  A year ago the oldest comitted suicide and it has been hard on everyone.  He was actually the only one that treated me like I belonged and would come visit us just to be visiting a