This is my first time on this forum and I am desperate for some guidance on what to do. I live with my 2 biological daughters (17 and 12), husband, our own daughters (7) and his 2 daughters from a previous marraige (13 and 15). We live in another country away from our ex partners. My eldest's father sees her once a year and similarly with my step daughters who see their mom once a year. My 12 year old is adopted by my husband. It's important to mention that that my husband and I have been married for 10 years and we met while he was still married.