I have a bio daughter born September 2012 and a step son born September 2011. I did not come into my situation knowing about my ss. Mom had a few different possibilities for the father and we did not find out until I was already pregnant. So the situation came up from behind. We didn't get visitation until December 2013. Jan, Feb, March we had him normal Friday-Sunday. Starting in April we changed to Thursday-Monday b/c we couldn't afford the child support. So it has been a year and NOTHING has changed. My ss would rather be ANYWHERE but with us.