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Had my first counselling session yesterday

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Submitted by SammyJo58 on Fri, 09/03/2010 - 10:44pm

Try breaking down the last 20 years of your life in an hour and a half - I don't think I've talked so much or so fast in my entire life....
I connected with a great therapist in our local Mental Health Clinic to help me with the SD issues and working on my marriage. Nice lady, very smart and understanding. She totally agrees with my decision to back off, and that I am right in assessing that I have been trying too hard all these years, which has simply empowered my SD to hurt me in ways I never imagined.

So,it appears DH is going to use his holidays to fly out and visit his daughter & 2 grandkids

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Submitted by SammyJo58 on Sun, 08/22/2010 - 10:15pm

I was very sick in bed night before last and he came in to tell me he had been looking at flights out west...high season for Air Miles, so we didn't have enough to cover the flight. I was planning on using our AirMiles for a January vacation, so I suggested he just search a flight. He checked the bus and it was 2 and 1/2 days just to get out there, and he only has a week off. After he checked flights, he said he can get one for $500. return. My only comment was "That's not too bad".