She is allotted a minimum of one 24hr visit a week as per CAS, so she was to have the kids from 5pm Sunday to 5pm Monday. When I dropped the kids off I told her its important she's on time because we have to leave the house by 6:45 to go view a house at 7. She says she planned on dropping them off at 4:30 anyway because she had to be somewhere at 5:30 (she lives across town and has no vehicle). So 5 rolls around, 5:30 rolls around... And finally it's 6:45 and we HAVE to leave because we need to be on time we really want this house so we left. We get home by 7:30 and still no word from BM. BF had been calling her since 4:30 with no answer so we had no choice but to wait. Finally she calls us at 8:30pm and this is how it went...

BM: Uhhh hello?!?!?
BF: ... Uhh hello?
BM: uh hello yourself! Where are you?
BF: At home where the fuck are you?
BM: I was at your house at 6:45 banging on the door and no one was there!
BF: yeah? And what time were you supposed to be here?
BM: um 6:45 !! Obviously !!
BF: No, not 6:45. Hurry up and bring the kids home SS2's bedtime was half an hour ago.
BM: fuck you!!! *hangs up*

And then she just never brought the kids home. We called her back at the number she dialed from But no one answered. And here we are at 12am the next day and no word from BM, SS2 was not taken to daycare and SS9 was not taken to school. Fucking ridiculous! I told BF he should call the cops but technically BM has custody of the kids it's just CAS setting guidelines based on our case. Which is an entirely different rant since we've been trying to get ahold f our caseworker for 3 weeks now... Ever since BM informed us since she passed her 6 weeks of drug testing she's got custody back. But no word from them. Ugh.

We think BM is just trying to prove a point with some sort of control issues she seems to be having. Becuse she's already told us she doesn't want the kids full time since she's only renting 1 bedroom of a house and working part time at Tim Horton's. So we'll see what happens but it's so infuriating.