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Princess Fionaesque SD and her soon to be hubby....part 2

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Submitted by SamJones on Thu, 03/19/2015 - 11:46pm

I thought my problems were over after my epic fight with DH over contributing to HIS daughter's wedding from our savings. When push came to shove, I dug my heels in and REFUSED to take from our savings fund, money to contribute to the wedding of SD. I said, your daughter, your expense. It is not fair to take FROM OUR savings, and besides SD and fiancée both have jobs!!!! Getting married without savings and expecting somebody else to foot the bill????? WTF!!!

Anyways, wedding gown paid for by hubby and BM. Next would be the reception expense. Which DH is saving up for now.

Who pays for step daughter's wedding

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Submitted by SamJones on Mon, 01/05/2015 - 1:05pm

Hi,

I am so glad I found this site.

Anyways, my step daughter is getting married and her mom had already asked financial assistance from me and my husband (her ex)..
my hubby and I have a joint savings account in place as we are looking to buy a house in the near future. My dilemma is It don't think it's going to be fair for my husband to dip into our savings to help pay for his daughter's wedding, that for all intents and purposes, his daughter and future SIL should be paying for themselves as they are both employed.