Hey guys I'm new to this site, I've been a step parent for going on 9 years.. sd is 14 and ss is 11. Ss11 is incredibly clingy! Like 5 stage clinger. Will come into our room and just sit there and stare at us. It's freaking weird. Mind you he's a liar! Since he was about 5 he constantly lies about dumb stuff. Steals money all the time! I just caught him stealing money out of our son who's 5 piggy bank. Mind you they share a room so it's just extremely annoying.  My sd 13 tends to stay in her room for the most part. Every time they are here I realize how unhappy I am when they are here.