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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/09/2009 - 10:18am

has brought home 2 forms from school 1 for a trip and 1 for shop class that i know he took last semester.He needs 50.00 and i know hes been pissed because we havent given him 40.00 for his game card therefore i think ss is lying about the shop class fee so i called his school so his teacher is going to get back to me am i right for doing this or am i just being a nag?

SS is driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/09/2009 - 7:51am

So last night dh and i sat down and talked to eachother after 2 days of ignoring eachother.I wrote a list of things that need to be fixed only 4 things on my list that i believe is a functional family.1.Dh needs to communicate and drop this passive aggressive crap.He said he will try and make an effort but to be patient with him.2.We must try to build up our relationship because it is slowly deteriorating.3.he must be a united front when it comes to the kids.He said that ss has never done anything so instead of pissing him off we should take steps with him.Do you guys agree with that?4.He m

I think i have to leave

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Submitted by sam on Sun, 02/08/2009 - 3:00pm

I am not a strong person and with everything going on i dont know how to handle it my dh and ss and i were all not talking to eachother and i tried to talk to my dh last night about me syepping back and not trying to parent his kids and he has ignored me all last night and today but today dh and ss are talking but im still being ignored why?I have no idea and im the one thats been getting shit on!!

what to do with a SPOILED BRAT

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Submitted by sam on Sat, 02/07/2009 - 4:31pm

So yesterday dh and i had an argument but he came and apoligized for the way he acted.So he asks me if me dh and ss could sit down and have a talk about whats been going on so i agree well that was a big mistake!!I sat there and poured my heart out to ss and dh sat there and told him he had to take the bus from now on to bms and back well ss sat there and said and i quote"Its unnecessary for me to take the bus i want you guys to drive me and pick me up"well our answer was no still and all he cared about was this stupid game thats 40.00 he wants cause hes bored!!Then i proceed to tell him th

Big Argument

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Submitted by sam on Fri, 02/06/2009 - 10:22am

Well today was crap i got into a big fight with dh.SS asked me this morning again after not talking to me for 5 days if i can go buy his card for his computer 40.00 if you read my last post you would know why we said no so i said go and talk to your dad so he marched upstairs to ask his dad and his dad said why dont you talk to me so ss just left ignoring his question so i went upstairs and tried talking to dh about it and we started getting into a heated discussion well i told him that the kids are spoiled and he said he doesnt want my opinion because i havent tried talking to ss and i tri

The nerve part 2

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Submitted by sam on Tue, 02/03/2009 - 3:20pm

Well ss just got home from school and asked me if i picked up his game card for his computer so i asked what he did with the 40.00 he got to go to his moms for bus fare and a haircut.Guess where it went 20.00 for gas money for bm to drive him home which she isnt allowed here and is our money and the other 20.00 he spent on god knows what.I am so pissed.This is also the same day i took him out and spent 70.00 on a new pair of shoes for school!!!

Dh and I had a talk last night

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Submitted by sam on Tue, 02/03/2009 - 11:21am

About everything that is going on and what the proper age would be for kids to get out get a job and live on their own.Ok so dh says that as long as they are in school they can live with us which i agree to a certain extent.Maybe highschool years right?But past that they are adults and if they go to college are we still suppose to support them?Frick that means they can live with us into their late 20s i dont think so!!!

THE NERVE

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Submitted by sam on Tue, 02/03/2009 - 7:23am

So if you have read my recent blogs about ss not wanting to take the bus and giving him the 40.00 to get his hair cut at bms house and bus fare to get home which he didnt take the bus but came home with nothing.He asked me this morning for another 40.00 for a game for his computer wtf i couldnt believe it after slamming the door on his dad in his face and hanging up on him.I told my dh he asked for this money and dh said he sure has some nerve.So dh said no fricken way!!!

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