I'm in my late twenties with a 5 year old daughter and I'm currently expecting another daughter in April. My husband is amazing but he has a son that is 12 years old from a previous relationship. His son has ADHD but he takes medication for it on school days but my husband has custody of his son every weekend and his mother doesn't allow him to be medicated on the weekend when he's with us. (My husband doesn't pick him up every weekend though because his mom lives over an hour away) at first when we started to date (I was 22.