So I ask DH why the spawn is doing a job he has already done yesterday and he explodes at me. Says he is sick of me questioning his parenting and he is angry because I haven't been sugary sweet to the spawn. So I let him have it! Both barrels! Told him what I thought of his oxygen thieving fucking spawn and how he changes into a pathetic door mat when he is around. Whatever the spawn wants, the spawn gets. How he ignores me and spends his whole time focusing on him. Then I mentioned all the "parent" things I had done and how I have to push him to do things or they wouldn't get done.