My SD18 graduates tomorrow and the anxiety is overwhelming. So when my husband and I were newly dating, BM had been invited to spend Christmas with my DH's family, because she was then, single and alone. Now 7 years later, here we are. DH and I have been married 2 years and we've been through so much turmoil with BM since. They are court appointed to communicate only through an app now and we haven't heard or seen her since we got married. I am a wreck. DH talked to SD and BM is dating someone but FIL is having surgery and can't attend. It'll just be BM an SS16.