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Husband only shares minimal details after GD out of town birthday party.

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Submitted by Rosie2 on Thu, 05/11/2017 - 10:58pm

I have been disengaged from my adult SD's for awhile now. My husband and I get along wonderfully when those issues are removed. We have occasionally had SD's over for dinner (on his birthday) and met them at a restaurant. Recently, DH went to an out of town birthday party for GD and I did not go because I had to work. When he came home, I asked how it went and he barely told me anything. I know when you are disengaged you are not supposed to ask details or care. But, I did, because I thought maybe things had changed, since we get along so well any other time.

It's basically the husband, not the stepkids

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Submitted by Rosie2 on Wed, 09/16/2015 - 11:33am

Hello, everybody! I have decided, that for me, it's not the stepkids-it's my husband. They are adults and he gives in to one of his daughters the most. She is the only one who has anything to do with him. She has some quackery beliefs about essential oils, energy, alternative health, and spiritual beliefs. When he's with me, he agrees its quackery. When he's with her he agrees and enables and participates in it all. So, I can't blame the step- daughter. He is the wishy washy chameleon.

Had a good cry

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Submitted by Rosie2 on Wed, 12/10/2014 - 9:56am

I had a good cry after realizing my husband doesn't willingly share anything with me about his D37 and D36. So I usually read his text messages to and from them. I realized I need to stop this and if he doesn't want to share with me, then I just won't know about them. I share everything with him about my S38 &S34 &D36. I have never understood why his adult kids are a secret. I plan to stop being so open about my adult kids. Seems sad to me.