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Riamama23's picture

I am new to this site and hoping to get some therapy out of this and gain some good insight!!!! If you have any ?'s about me or my fam feel free to ask I am pretty much an open book;)Well this week is spring break and of course ss is here! He himself is an amazing kid but how can it be that "dad" brings the worst out of him???????Itis really getting me how he spoils him he got a ps vista for Easter lol it was given to him privately soy children wouldn't see oh ,how nice huh! I can't afford to buy things like that for my own nor would I especially for Easter lol ss grades are aweful my kids are all honor students ,my rule is good grades are expected not rewarded! I could go on and on but I won't one more thing all week I have slept alone d h thinks he needs to spend all his time with him I have been on my own since 05 (my hubby passes)and my kids have always slept alone. Btw I'm not married to the ass yet just didn't know the lingo for living in sin peeps. I am southern baptist and my hubby( rip) dad is a pastor. So much more to tell !!!! Any advice on how to handle the I have to buy my kids love type parent??????

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AliceP's picture

just don't let it interfere with your pocket book!! Sort of remind them it's not doing them anygood if they are willing to have a conversation.

Riamama23's picture

I haven't over spent yet, I feel like it "just cause" but I guess it's just more of a jealousy meaning I wish I could spend like that but at the same time it's ridiculous! I have told my kids to overlook fh's spending on ss because at the end we have a bond that can't be bought! nothing beats conversations with our children time spent trying a new craft or project with them I have tried telling fh this but it goes in one and out the other I have learned so much about ss this week like crushes at school silly stories about classmates his relationship with bm and sd all which fh is clueless about! Now that read this it's kind of sad:(