OK I finally have a chance for some form of back story for myself. I have desided I like this site very much and everyone on it. This was exactly the stressreliver I was looking for.

I left a very emotionally abusive and sometimes fairly even physically abusive relationship. (The full blown divorce part still going because my ExH wants to fight about every little f*ing thing.) It's been really hard. I was too scared to leave till he left the state with our 3 year old at the time.

He left to have a surgery. Let me point out this was a lie, he never got it. My bio son now 4 was to come back after 3 months. Right after I dropped him off out there my Exs sister in law moved in with me she needed a job and place to stay she had just gotten out of final probation stages she said. I was working 2 jobs and was to start to travel while my Ex was away with our boy so I could make more for a while. His sister started right after we got back smoking Marijuana I said she have to leave. My ex and I fought about so much already at this point and all he wanted was my paycheck. He said he wouldn't be coming back and I was never gonna see our son again.

I was transferred to a new city. ( I looked at this like starting over a new life, but one still missing my son) as I started our divorce learned about having to wait out the legal system to gain legal custody of my son. (Because he left the state my order of protection against my ex did not extend to him) Who until he left with his BioD had never been apart for more than a few days.

While living in this new city I met my now SO who let's just say he is the fairytale. I know everyone has there ups and downs but he always helps around the house and does the little things like buys flowers just because and makes dinner on nights I'm tired and of course he knew about my ex and I being seperated but not through my divorce. He was totally understanding because he had been through 2 divorces.

We had been seeing each other a few months when I moved in with him. Because we lived near the oil field and rent is outragious. It seemed so much easier to pool both our incomes he had 3 beautiful kids (15yr old boy 13 yr old girl and a 9 yr old with Autism) and when I first moved in things were a little tense but got better after a few weeks I made sure the kids all knew I wasn't there to take there dad away. Gave them all individual and family time. When I won custody of my son back he came to live with us.

This is where the fairytale endes for the kids' it got tense again but this time its not getting better because the Skids biomom gets it now, I'm going to stay. She has poisoned the younger two (Who live with her the majoirity of the time) with the weirdest crap. Like she says god speaks to he and tells her of the demons that live in my heart that I'm just useing there dad as a paycheck even though I work and she has no job, (looks after her kids full time because of 9yr olds Autism) The kids are acting out and blaming me for it, because of my dark spirits making them. (BM's line) My SO knows she's crazy. This is why they aren't together but he doesn't see that same crazy in his manipulative bitch 13yr old.

To conclude I'm still new to the site and I do love it a great deal. I love reading all the other parents, reminds me I'm not alone or completely crazy.