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Dh wants to say his final goodbyes

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The problem is, is that, sd was cremated and bm has the ashes. Dh is considering asking bm for them so he can say his goodbyes. She is such a, fill in the blank, that she will most likely say no. Do you know if we have any legal recourse? We aren't going to keep them or do anything unjust to them. Dh just feels like he needs to say goodbye.

Dhs dd did pass away

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Dd sent bm a friend request and pretended to be an old friend of sds. She said she was sad to hear sd had passed and wanted to offer her condolences. She asked when and how sd died, she died of cancer almost 4 yrs ago. It was a reoccurance for the 3rd time. She got cancer at 10, it came back when she was 19 and then came back aggressively at 24 and she died 6 months later. I beleive dd said brain cancer but then she said tumor so I'm not sure which it is it the same? Dh is pissed that no one told him when she was diagnosed at 10. He should have been told.

I need help finding out if dh's daughter is really dead

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It's a long story but dh started a new job and his son works there. Dh hasn't seen his son in about 20 years due to their bad behavior and bm poisoning them against me and my children. Dh was forced to step aside since bm and his kids were intent on hurting him and us. So, dh works in an office and on his first day he was introduced to everyone and that's when he he saw ss. They work in different departments but they are on the same floor. SS shook his hand like everyone else and didn't acknowledge him as a relative until someone asked if they were related (same last name).