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Hatred for stepdaughter is eating me up

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Submitted by Razamond on Wed, 07/14/2010 - 10:17pm

I can't stand this 14 year old evil bitch. I hate the fact that she is in my house for the summer. It depresses me. I constantly worry about her going into my room and stealing my things. I have moved all the valuable jewelry to my parents house. I leave my makeup at work. I hide money, checkbooks, laptop and other personal belongings. I take a picture with my cell phone of how I left my other personal items each morning before I go to work so I can compare when I get home to make sure they have not been tampered with. I can't stand her.

I haven't been on here in awhile

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Submitted by Razamond on Sun, 06/14/2009 - 9:13am

Hey everyone I wanted to drop a line to let you all know I am still alive and doing good. BM actually took her week of custody this past week so It has been a very nice week with my DH and my bio-son. The steppkids come back on Monday and of course DH nor BM found any type of summer childcare. For the past three years I am the one we found summer childcare for their kids - not this year, just like I said, I am staying true to my word and DH and BM are not using me to provide for their kids anymore. I am sure he will leave them home all day alone (SD13 and SS10).

Bm did not take her week of custody AGAIn

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Submitted by Razamond on Mon, 04/13/2009 - 10:54pm

There has to be some form of recourse for this - I think DH should file contempt charges against her = this is the second time she has not taken her week of custody since the court gave her back her 50% (every other week). I am really getting tired of this - I had to go stock the house full of groceries - SD is here at least three weeks in a row - no peace for me - my mother is forced to watch her after school for three weeks in a row (at least) no break for her.

I need prayer help

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Submitted by Razamond on Tue, 03/31/2009 - 8:11pm

I love my husband - I cannot tell you how much. I love him and I have faith in his wisdom as head of our household. SD continues to poison our relationship and H continues to blame me and get mad at me when SD does something wrong. It is SD's goal to ruin our marriage and DH continues to get less and less caring and less and less affectionate. He is sleeping on the coach more often and working more and more overtime. I now believe SD is doing things and telling DH I have done them to her - of course he believes her over me.

Opinions need SD left me some f u letters

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Submitted by Razamond on Wed, 03/18/2009 - 9:34pm

What do you all think I should do. SD is at BMs this week (switch day Monday) I go into her room (in my house) to get laundry and she has left a full sheet note saying Razamond F You - in small letters to the side it says Go to Hell. I looked in a drawer, there is another full sheet that says Razamond F You and PS Still F You LOL. I look in the next drawer and there is yet another full sheet saying Razamond Go To Fing Hell with little F Yous around it.

I don't think SD is DH's bio-child

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Submitted by Razamond on Mon, 03/16/2009 - 12:26am

As you all know my DH has two children - SD 13 and SS 10. SS is a mirror image - top to bottom and he shares his fathers actions. SD 13 has NOTHING of DH, not eyes, not nose, not ears -nothing. She doesn't act like my DH, she doesn't look like my DH and she doesn't look like anyone in the family. She resembles her mother but not a mirror image like SS. BM cheated on DH several times and one time DH confided in me that BM said the kids weren't his - he said she was just being evil and saying untrue evil things.

Has BM's husband ever called you?

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Submitted by Razamond on Mon, 03/02/2009 - 5:47pm

BM remarried and married a deadbeat who doesn't take care of his own kids, doesn't work etc. Anyway apparently he drives around all day in her car (the car her father gave her - her car was repo'd - when she was living with family and had no bills - long story) so BM's husband's only job is to drive around in her car all day - questionable huh? Well he does pick up the kids during her week, I don't know him - by worthless reputation only.

Ladies do you ever feel like the ex got the best part of your H

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Submitted by Razamond on Sat, 01/31/2009 - 6:34pm

and you got what was left? I have a co-worker who knows my H's ex (my co-worker is a playboy and he apparently did some playing with the ex - he wouldn't give me a time frame but I have no doubt that it was during the marriage) Anyway co-worker tells me ex told him how good my H was to her. How he tried so hard to make her happy Some things he did to go out of his way to make her happy from simple stuff like foot rubs to buying her monthly massages.

Today is D Day

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Submitted by Razamond on Mon, 01/26/2009 - 7:44am

A lot is going down today and forgive me but I need to get it out. After 3 straight weeks of SD (hateful, nasty) BM finally took her court ordered week of custody last week. That's over today - this is H's week. So I am holding my breath waiting to see how SD acts this evening. Either BM has filled her with ammunition to be even more nasty and hateful or, like H hopes for, SD has realized over the past week how good H and I are to her. What i don't understand is why over the summer when BM was homeless and H had full custody (not on paper) SD was a different person.

I made some oo points

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Submitted by Razamond on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 7:37am

I am proud of myself and I wanted to brag - so forgive me. I just got off the phone with H and I made some good points he couldn't argue with. I asked him 'Why are you so cold' his response
"Because when my kids are here you are cold to my daughter"
(mind you he does this every week she is here and has been doing it for years, long before she started being hateful and nasty - even back when I was breaking my neck to build a relationship with her.
I asked him, 'Do you think I started that?' He said "But you are an adult"

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