So I'm new on this site but it might just be what i'm looking for seeing how I cant find a step parent support group where I live. Going in deep here so......there are times where the kid(9)and I have fun but there are more times of comments, comments that would only come from an adult, would come out of his mouth. There are noticable times when he's with the father that you can tell he's two different kids when he's there or here. My question is what or where do I look for to pick up on these types of things.