And walked his big balls up the stairs. And gave me the blow by blow.

They ended up meeting at a coffee shop per his suggestion. He said she appeared nervous, and he asked her why. "Well, I thought you might take away my cell phone or my stupid ass monster truck."
"Well, that's been talked about and that may happen."

He told her that she will be a participating member of this family and not only refrain from causing division and oppression within the home, but that she will add to the home in a positive fashion. And that if she doesn't, she will not have a place here.

He talked with her about her disrespectful tone and words with him. She piped in that she learned it from watching her mother do it to him. He told her that is done, that she will no longer speak to him disrespectfully or argue with him disrespectfully.

He brought up how my kids asked about princess and pee eating dinner with us the other night, and that my nine year old asked a day and a half after she huffed off if princess were still here. He confronted her on her isolating behavior and the messages that behavior was sending.

He told her she will not interfere with pee's efforts to build a life here (picked up pee tonight from wrestling, he won the varsity spot he had his eye on, good for him! He worked hard for it.)

He told her she has two choices regarding her feral cat. One, he is declawed and we see if it becomes workable. Two, we will find another place for him immediately. She opted for declawing after he shot down her brilliant idea of letting him have at it with the other cats. The other cats are literally half his size, as he is a pixel bob cat. He is the only one that has claws. One of my cats, Yoda, is a Himmelayan. Yoda is incapable of fighting, even to defend himself. He's just a live plush toy. Her cat has appointment with the vet this Thursday.

He said that the basement door is going to be open from now on. He discussed with her that the basement door being closed gives an oppressive feel to the house and sends a message to everyone that it's not ok for to go down there.

He told her she will not use this home as a flop house. That she will clean up after herself and keep the downstairs bathroom clean.

He told her she needs to and will get a job. We are not providing additional financial support, and if she does not meet these expectations that the finanical support she currently has will end.

He confronted her about the booze and condom wrappers and naked pictures at his old house, which has yet to sell. She tried to blame that on him, suggesting that she did those things because he was at what is now our house so much of the time. He didn't buy it. He told her she will treat our houses with respect. She said the pictures were not of her, and I hope they are not.

princess tried to make a case that I haven't respected her and that she has not felt respected here. Whatever.

He asked her repeatedly throughout the conversation, "Do you understand and accept these terms?" To which she had to repeatedly say yes, knowing her car and cell phone and very room in this house are at stake.

Now, I don't give a rip whether princess buys into this internally. What I do care about and what she knows is that her behavior is under a microscope. She knows she is on the verge of being booted out on her entitled ass.

When we were at his old house moving more things and came across the booze, condom wrappers, pictures and vibrator packaging, I saw that she had left a single garment in her closet. The beautiful, pure silk hand tailored gown that I gave her free rein to design as she wished with the seamstress. She had previously told her father she had everything she wanted out of that house. I took the dress back, she has no idea that it is a 650.00 dress. We're the same size. The dress is now mine, and she will never have it again.

There might be more I'm not remembering at the moment, but ladies, I am still quite turned on by his big balls!

We are taking the house back. Basement opens up Thursday for living again. JoJo, you made some great comments and I want to say more about them.

And your latest blog! You are very wise and if you were man you'd have really big balls!!! : )