I feel both my SD's (19 & 17) are not to be trusted. I am a straight-up, say what I think, honest person. And both of these girls have been taught by BM to play this manipulation, hide the truth, immature, lying games.

The latest is in regards to 19yo who was living w/SIL. SIL is getting ready to move. So SD is going to move in w/BM. That is fine. You are almost 20, and I just assume not have you around my other kids at this point. What gets me is that, for some reason, DH and I were not supposed to know about this????? Why??? We could care less where you live,you are an "adult" now, and in fact think it would be good for both SD's to live w/BM FT at some point so they can see that we are not as bad as their BM says we are, and BM is not all great as they want to believe.

Now I have to endure a trip to Disney soon w/both of them and our 3 little ones, and I am not looking forward to it. They both will lie straight up to us, will talk in half-truths about things and I am sick of it. Thankfully, this will probably be the last vacation I will have to do w/them.