After finding out last night that SD got my Netflix password and her and BM ordered a DVD account on it I do not want to see her face. I am still highly upset. I still can't believe BM had the testicles to ask to keep the Netflix. DH hasn’t told hasn't told SD this yet. But we have removed the TV, laptop, and radio from her room. She will be grounded from the time she gets her tonight until the weekend is up. But if we tell her she will try to stay at BM's house and not want to come. And BM doesn't think she did anything wrong. I am baffled she thinks that SD was confused and thought that DH got the Netflix for her because they don't have cable at BMs house. And even if he didn't he should let her keep it because he loves her. She keeps trying to reach DH in hopes of guilting him into letting her keep the Netflix. You know what bothers me is that during their divorce DH agreed to let her keep the house and the car that were already paid off. So she pays no rent or car payments. She gets a sizable amount of child support and she works but yet she can't afford an 8 dollar Netflix? DH and I work hard for everything we have and she thinks we should also pay to keep her entertained. When SD gets here she will bitch and moan about being grounded and why did we take all of "Her" stuff out of her room (which we paid for everything in that room) and how she wants to call BM and go home. I am just going to disengage the best I can and let DH handle her. I really don't want to see her pudgy face right now.