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Does anyone else live close to BM

porcelian-doll's picture

I hate living close to BM. Anywhere I go she could pop up at anytime. Just got back from going out to dinner with DH. Who so happened to be at IHOP? BM and her new BF. Why did she have to go to the same place around the same time as me. I lost my appetite seeing her face so I left and asked DH to take me to Denny's.

Every time I see her face I get the chills. She is always starting something. I don't even give her the opportunity anymore. I just keep my distance. I just hate they we live close and can't afford to move right now especially with a baby on the way. Do any of you guys live close to BM?

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attempting_to_maintain_composure's picture

Not anymore, thankfully. We lived ten minutes away from her for about five or six months. Thankfully, I never ran into her anywhere when out and about. She worked about five minutes away from my school at the time, but, she did all of her shopping around the town in which SO's townhouse was located. But, then she moved 2 and a half hours south and even though she had people she visited up in our general area, we never ran into her because we didn't hang out in the areas where her jackass friends lived. Now we have a blissful 6 hours between our two towns and I'm hoping that it stays that way. I can't even hear her voice without wanting to strangle her.

realitycheckmom's picture

LMAO at the last line!!!!!! Not so funny that she walked into your house and the skid's room.

Shook's picture

ROFL it has to be Hubbard. I don't understand the interviews with Tom Cruise & John Travolta so must be them. They scare the aliens out of me!

realitycheckmom's picture

LMAO!!! Even more so LMAO because I was just reading a story about Jesus to DD earlier. He is so nice in those stories, it is amazing he tells BM to do such naughty things.

Shook's picture

OMG Cactus! BM married both our DH's! Holy crap, you'd think she'd be a little more original.

Shook's picture

LOL Cactus. Maybe she has more neighbors there that speak in tongues. They can tongue chat while they take out the garbage.

Shook's picture

There must be something about being a crazy evil BM that transcends them into a pious deity.
"If God talks to me daily, why can't you pick up the phone DH. I damn you!"

12yrstepmonster's picture

We live in seperate rural towns, but share a mural "town". We both work there, in the 16 years I have only seen her a handful of times. I usually see her with BM radar, and turn the other way.

I would lose my appetite as well.

KiFire's picture

BM1 lives 45mins away and her town has all the things she would need like a few fast food places and a grocery store, hospital, ect.. it's really more of a suburb. So we don't run into her.

BM2 on the other hand.. lives in a more rural town like us, So the shopping centers and grocery stores we use are also the ones BM2 uses, also the only indoor play area is in our town unless we want to drive 45min away. So we do run into her occasionally. Luckily (not) SD will cause a huge scene if she runs into the parent that is "off duty" during a shopping trip, so both work together to make sure SD doens't see the other parent. If we have her we distract her and BM moves out of sight, vice-versa if BM has SD - she distracts and we scoot into another aisle.

Lalena75's picture

She lives just at the edge of town sort of it's considered another town but it only has cheapo houses trailers and 2 gas stations. I see her mom all the time as she works nearby and a place we sometimes do our shopping. Yet I've never ran into BM. Heck my exh is 2 blocks I never run into him see his gf every great once in awhile and her kiddo all the time. (she like to talk to me for some reason)

chocolatelover's picture

BM lives about a half hour away, but when SO has SS she spends all her time at her boyfriend's apartment, 30 seconds down the road from SO.

Tuff Noogies's picture

Dumbass lives about 25 mins away. it sucks cuz taking the skids to school means an hour and 15 minutes round trip, as all 3 of their schools are up in her direction, as are all their sports stuff... ugh.

i actually wish she lived closer, would save on gas $ and wear-n-tear on the vehicles.
there's not much up where she is, kinda out in BFE and we're in town, but have never actually bumped into her shopping or anything.

New second wife-step-mom's picture

BM used to live in a suburb 30 minutes away until her BF kicked her out. Now she lives 10 minutes away but shops, does business and works in the city that we live in.

So I run into her at the restaurants, shops and driving way to frequently.

I am so wanting to move about 30-45 minutes out of the city but DH doesn't want to drive into the city for work everyday.