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BM believing her BF over her own daughter

porcelian-doll's picture

SD14 called DH claiming that BM let her new BF spend the night and he creeps her out. According to SD he undresses her with his eyes when her mom isn't looking and he came behind her in the kitchen and said her hair smells good. He asked SD for a good night hug and BM made her give him one and he whispered to her that she is sexier than her mom. BM does not believe her and says she is just making this up for attention. SD is staying with us because BM said and this is a quote from her mouth " Tell DH to come get his little lying daughter I'm tired of her starting stuff".

I don't like SD but I would take her word for something like this before I would call her a liar. I know BM's boyfriend he use to date one of my friends the guy is a creep. DH wants to solve things his way and says he will wait outside BM's house until he sees this guy and he will make sure he never lays a finger on his daughter. I have been trying to calm him down all night and all morning. This is a sticky situation. I think SD will be staying with us for a while. As much as I don't like SD I have a heart. DH and I ae going to do whatever it takes to make sure SD does not go back to BM's house until BM can stop bringing that man over.

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somedevilishbeauty's picture

wow that is a tough one. the way yourSD has been acting latley i could see why her mom isnt believing her. makes you think about that boy that cried wolf story. But at the same time you really cant stand around and let this creepy guy do this if she is telling the truth. I feel bad for your DH. hopfully you guys taking her in will wake her ass up and see that you guys are really looking out for her best interest. good luck.

overworkedmom's picture

Even if SD is a habitual liar, I would err on the side of caution before I would risk my child being raped or molested by any boyfriend.

whatwasithinkin's picture

word from experience recent experience to boot:

When DH discussed SD17 moving to MIL with her mother and described everything that has been taking place it was enlightening to hear that this was the same bullshit that SD17 pulled with her two years ago before we swooped in and took custody. If she would have communicated that to us things would be different.

Have DH have a conversation face to face with BF or even by phone would work.

stepinafrica's picture

Wow. I feel sorry for the kid. Maybe you guyz can go for custody or something.