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SIL crappy parenting update.

PeanutandSons's picture

So it looks like I won't be watching nephew on Fridays. Once mil heard that I offered to watch him she got all butt hurt and said she would watch him on Fridays. Just on Fridays mind you.....not any of the other days she need she needs help with. Whatever, I offered, I didn't my part

Last week my nieces missed two days of school. One day because their dad was tired and wanted to sleep in. And another for who knows why.

This morning dh was dropping the baby with his sitter (he is watching by nieces dads grandma, so same house he lives in currently since he is unemployed) and its now after 8 and the girls are chilling in front of the TV in their PJs. Sil and her baby are also there. He asks ex bil why on earth the girls are home and not in school. Bil's answer? Because it was raining earlier. ?!??!!? Dh was disgusted and said, you do realize that the school has a roof right? And besides its not raining now, there is such a thing as going in late. Bil just shook his head as if that was a ridiculous idea and said no that he wasnt going to take them now and that they could just stay home. Two unemployed parents with two functions being cars and no one could be bothered to get the kids to school. Unbelievable.

I can see their future in my crystal ball....and its not good. Some people really shouldn't be parents.

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HappyCow's picture

Our BM once punished SD14 by not allowing her to go to school for the day. Her crime?...Not doing the dishes after breakfast. Who in the world does this? She then called DH to bitch that SD was punished and she made her stay home from school to clean the house. Needless to say that was the last time that this happened. DH went ape shit on her lazy ass. BM's house was so nasty and she couldn't get off her couch to clean it so she used SD as a maid for the day.

PeanutandSons's picture

I know Sad

The older one is completely ruined already. I can't stand to be around her.

The younger one is really sweet though...so I feel really badly for her since she never had a chance. I would take her in a heartbeat if anything ever happened to her parents.

And the poor baby is doomed. No dad around and a mom who can't be bothered to go out of her way at all out of her way to step up and parent. The girls at least have dads extended family, who are super awesome. Nephew only has my in-laws for relatives....and you ball know how badly they suck.