Lawyer Called Back
I got the OK from her to go. She said rip the band-aid off and do it. Moving isn't a bad thing as long as you are moving from one "stable" place to another. She did say to find a place in the same school district, so I am looking a few places tomorrow. I feel so relieved and so scared at the same time. I am trying to figure out when to tell him. My co-workers said to tell him as the moving trucks are in the driveway. I just don't know...
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Please do not tell him. If
Please do not tell him.
If you feel like you must give an explanation send an email or leave a note after you are out.
If you have any family- dad, brothers etc. Have them come over to help.
You are leaving a bad situation with a control freak, nothing like sending a control freak into overdrive than taking back your control over your own life. Please for your safety and the safety of your kids do not tell him before hand. He will figure it out.
My MIL left FIL right before
My MIL left FIL right before their 25th anniversary because she was sick of his shit. She rented an apartment, hired movers and did it while he was at work. He came home to a 1/2 empty house. They were seperated for a year and he did anger management type therapy. During that time she would not even let him know where she lived.
can you do it while he is at work, have the movers show up once he leaves.
Was that by accident or on
Was that by accident or on purpose?
Your safety holds priority
Your safety holds priority over any perceived obligation to give him a courtesy "heads up." I vote for doing it while he's out and just leaving a note.