Last night my DS6 tells me that he wants to go live with his dad because his life will be better there. After I pick my heart up off the floor I talk to him and ask him why his life will be better there and his first answer is that SS6 wont be there :O . "True" I say, "But your sister and I wouldn't be there either." He came up with a few more reasons and it came down to the fact his dad doesn't make him clean his room and the new 3-D tv his dad bought. I just told him that if I didn't pay our bills and just lived in a house for free we could have one too. But what is more important? A 3-D TV or being responsible? He agreed that being responsible and him learning to be a part of a family that works together was more important.

SS also got in trouble at camp again. FDH had such a bad day yesterday that I didn't even tell him until he got home after 11 pm last night. He was so grumpy on the phone earlier in the evening when I talked to him I thought he would take out all the frustration on me. Then my mood got all bad because I hated that I felt like I couldn't actually tell him what happened. We talked last night and I feel better about it, he promised that I could tell him anything about SS at any time, we are a team and I shouldn't have to handle the bad behavior alone. So that was good.

We are moving in 10 days . Thank God! But also we had a vacation booked and paid for before we knew we were buying this house. So now we are coming back from the trip 2 days early so that we can meet movers and get over there. FDH has been working like crazy the last 2 weeks (11 last night was actually early for him to be home) trying to make our new home perfect for us. There is just so much stress and $$$ flying out right now and I am incredibly overwhelmed....