I just had to let all of you know that it is over!!

My ex sent me the stupidest summer schedule of all time on Wed., just 36 hours from our court date. I was freaking out that he was going to use this against me as being uncooperative when we went in today. I sent a revised one back to him Thurs. night (his had me not getting my kids but 2 week nights every other week for 7 weeks straight, mine divided up his summer 10-day visits over the course of the summer and left my weekends intact. He responded that if I didn't agree to his way that we would go to court and I would have to deal with a GAL. At that point I took a xanex, cried and went to bed. I was terrified that something could happen and my kids wouldn't stay with me. Not that I have ever done anything wrong, it is just scary having your fate in some judge's hands.

Well, we got called up and he dropped it. He told the judge we had a break through in communication :jawdrop: . I have no idea what he is talking about but at least it is over!!! My lawyer assured me that he really didn't have a chance so maybe his lawyer did the same since he showed up without counsel. I think the whole thing was a scare tactic. It worked, he seriously fucked with my mind, but in the end, my kids stayed where they belong!

Now I can really focus on my move from AHH and SS!!