1) BM's sister invited me and DH to her wedding. We like her, she is super nice and we like her fiancee too. They both were there for SS when BM was homeless/in jail/rehab. I am also invited to the bridal shower thrown by BM and GBM. BM was even asking me for wording ideas for the invitation because they are doing this project that is really cute for the decoration for the wedding.

I just think it is very weird!! DH said he didn't mind going and like I said they are great and things with BM are good. I am just weirded out a little Does anyone have a good relationship with BM/BM family that this would be normal with? LOL

2) MIL called me yesterday and I didn't answer. I am still not ready to play nice. How long do you think I can avoid her? I just don't think I can keep my mouth shut about me knowing the hurtful things she said about me. I get that she is all alone and needs to do something but she needs to stop trying to plan a vacation with MY husband and criticizing my parenting of SS. She is part of the reason that he is the way he is. When DH was working (all the time) and BM split, MIL kept him. She was a primary parent until I came along. She gave in to every thing and never held him responsible for his actions (just like everyone else) and now I get the devil they created! Even BM tells me all the time that I am the only real parent the child has ever had! So I am still in EFF of MIL mode.