I have 2 teenage sds and both look and act as their mother does. I always think it would be much easier if they were like their father, that i adore. They are manipulative, compulsive liars, disrespectful to not only me, but their father (like their mother). I feel guilty, but I wish they would discontinue their every other weekend visit with their father. It gets very frustrating for me because I am finished raising my children and don't want to go back to the nagging mother phase.