So we did not have SD for Halloween this year, I wanted to stay home and pass out candy in our new house where there are plenty of kids now.... But alas I had to work. I asked DH to get a pic of SD4 in her costume from BM. He did and sen it to my phone, I was surprised by how it made me feel... It felt like I was missing out on something really important. I know she is not my bio, but I guess when I don't have one, and she is with me more often than not... sometimes I think of her as mine... I felt a little sad not being with her...