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Submitted by oncechoosetosmile on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 5:26am

...and SD 8 is laying on my side of the bed next to SO. :jawdrop: And she has often head lice. And I have hair extension.Sigh!!!I don't like that!!!!!!!! :sick:

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 5:43am

Oh I banned the skids from our bed VERY early in the piece.

I ever so politely told him that that is our place, it is a private place and it is where we are intimate. And if he wanted to continue being intimate with me in that bed then he'd better make sure they are NEVER in it.

I told him I couldn't imagine being intimate with him in a place where I know he has memories of snuggling with his "babies", that all I can think about is them.... }:) }:)

He got the message.

We don't even have kids photos (his or mine) in our bedroom. He put his kids on the bedside table first day we moved in together and I said no. Same reason - I don't want to be laying here making love with you and looking at your kids faces.... talk about off-putting.... :sick:

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 3:38pm

Nope! Never. When we first started dating, SS8'(then 6) tried to climb in with us once. I'm sooooo glad DH sent him back to his room, cuz that was one of my tests in the beginning hehe! I had an ex who regularly slept with his 5 year old daughter and 10 year old son. Ewwww...nope.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 3:56pm

I banned ALL kids (my own DD included) from our bedroom. A. There's NO good reason for them to be in there! They have access to every other room in the house and B. I like to have ONE place I can go where ONLY my DH and I go.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 4:33pm

^^Me too Frieda. We never went into our parent's bedroom. Period.

At first, Dh would allow SD14 to come into his room whenever she wanted. Once we moved into our apartment, I put a stop to it. I said "She has access to every room in this apartment, WHY does she need to come in here?" And he said, "well, I don't know, I guess because she likes to come in and sit on the bed and talk". Oh and that can't be done in the living room or her room? Please.

He agreed that there just wasn't a good reason for her to be allowed in our room and told her so. Of course, she pitched a fit saying she could go in BM's room whenever she wanted. UGH!