So...Nothing went her way. When they got there it turned out they weren't even on the docket for today for some reason. They sat down to explain to the docket guy why they were there so that he could either put them on the docket or schedule them to come back another day. BF's's lawyer explained that there was no change in his income and if anything it had gone down because of gas prices and that we're going to have a baby soon. She said that her income had gone down significantly and that's why she filed the petition to modify. Then the lawyer asked her why her income had gone down so much and she said that she was collecting unemployment. BF's lawyer asked her why she was on unemployment, and she said that she got terminated with no option of rehire because of her son's medical problems (she didn't mention when). He said, "You can't get or keep a job because of your son? Maybe we should fix that..." She was livid! Then BF's lawyer asked BM if she had been looking for a job the whole time she's been unemployed. She wouldn't answer him. So that right there proves that she's not "unemployed," she's voluntarily underemployed, which BF's lawyer will be able to use to BF's advantage later. Then she said, "Well if him having a baby with his girlfriend is going to affect my child support payment then I think her income should be considered in the payment amount!" The docket guy quickly jumped in and was like "Woah there! We're not going to change the way that the guidelines are applied." He explained to BM that my income doesn't have anything to do with her son just like if she had a boyfriend/husband, his income wouldn't have anything to do with any children BF might have with someone else. Then the lawyer explained that they can't do this hearing today anyway because according to BM there's a conflict with the judge, so they continued it until July, which of course pissed her off even more. BF thinks she's going to try to get the case moved to her county but that won't help her anyway because the judge down there doesn't like her either. When they were walking out of the courtroom BF's lawyer said, within earshot of BM, "Yeah, considering everything I think you have a great shot at filing now. We'll take care of everything. I think now is a great time for you to file." He never came out and said, "for custody" but BM caught the jist. Her jaw almost hit the floor!

Thank you all for thinking of us and keeping your fingers crossed. Another small victory for us! Yay!