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how in the hell is this my fault????

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So yesterday was our 4th appt with the counseler, and for anyone that has been reading my blog you would know the struggles I have endured at the hands of my SS10. Up until late yesterday afternoon I have been hopeful that counseling was going to help with his behavior but yesterdays appt took a sharp left turn and has left me more pissed and hurt then ever!

Finally someone listened

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Took my SS10 to his first appt yesterday with the therapist and thank god now there is someone in my corner. Based on SS10s attitude towards me leading up to the appt I thought for sure it would be a slow motion train wreck but thankfully this therapist was able to cut thru all of his bullshit. He asked me real specifically everything that was going on with SS10 and asked tons of history and questions to us both. SS10 did everything in his power to paint me as the bad guy and also raised his voice and tried to argue with the therapist on several occasions.

make a dr appt for the little sociopath

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Finally my DH sees some clarity in what his BS10 is doing! Yesterday was a horriable day in our household. You could have cut the tension in our house with a knife. It started off as a regular lazy weekend, I woke up as I always do and went straight to the kitchen to make breakfast for my family. After slaving away and making a breakfast feast my SS10 threw an absolute fit because I served him his plate last. He started yelling that I didn't make his food right and that is super rude that he didn't get his plate first.

its all so clear to me now!

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Its all crystal clear to me now, my DH is the problem! In another one of our "conversations" about SS10 behavior, he point blank says to me all the kids act this way. Referring to my BS12 and BD9. Omg are u kidding me!! No honey not all the kids act this way, only your spoiled rotten little brat does! And to make matters worse he said this within earshot of the little demon spawn so way to go giving him an excuse for his behavior....yet again.

my SS is evil!

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I am absolutely at my wits end, my SS 10, is pure evil and I have nowhere to turn or no one to believe me! My husband and I have been married for 2 years now and I am the only mother my SS has ever known. He was abandoned by his BM at birth and my husband has raised him on his own. I have tried to step in and be a mother to him but he is making almost impossiable to even like him. Since the very beginning he has treated me terriably, he is rude, disrepectful, and plain mean to me.