Everytime my SS11 visits, my H wants to make it a vacation of nonstop fun. WTH? I keep telling him he has guilty dad syndrome, but he says no. H wants to call in sick to work for the time SS11 is on summer visitation (15days June, 15 days July) H refuses to plan fun when SS is not with us...why? We have two BD's and life isn't supposed to stop when SS leaves. This is so frustrating and it is seriously affecting our marriage. It doesn't help that the BM is nuts, really, she has been in and out of rehab.