:? Im a 29 year old stepmother. I've been with my husband for 4 years. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage. Girl ML age 8 and boy DL age 6. ML now stays with her mother. DL stays with us. And we also now have a 11 month old girl. Wich DL loves to bits.

The problem is my husband (JL) doesn't really "notice" anything DL does. So if I talk about stuff he'll jyst tell the kids "she's no fun" If I complaint about DL hanging from the cars window the im "no fun"