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Submitted by Ninji on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 2:18pm

I pick Skids up from school earlier today because SS8 had an eye dr appt. SS's teacher came down to the office to speak to me. Gave me a Vocabulary test that he will be missing so that he can do it at home. She said he could use his book but he took it to BM's house two weeks ago and they haven't gotten it back.

She then tells me that SS turned in his math homework but that BM had done it for him and she was only going to give him part credit for it.

When we were walking out the car, I told SS that he should to be doing his homework not BM. She has done this every year with one or the other of the children. I also said she knows the work and SS, you need to learn it. SS said that when she was doing it she couldn't figure it out but then did.

I text SO and tell him what the teacher said and he sent a message to BM. Apparently BM denies doing SS's work. I was using the voice text opinion on my phone when I replied to SO and SS said, "I'm not lying, she did my work. I don't know how to write in cursive" I guess she wrote out some of the work in cursive.

I tell SO that if BM is denying doing the work, she needs to contact the teacher so SS can get full credit. SO said she was going to.

LOL...So how far is BM going to keep lying about this. EVERYONE knows she did it. An 8yr old boys handwriting looks totally different than a grown woman's handwriting.

The funny thing is, she lies all the time but she is horrible at it and gets caught more times than not. But she will stick to her story even when she's caught red handed. LOL

....And she said that it's not her problem that SS can't find his reading book at her house. MOTY

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misSTEP's picture

Submitted by misSTEP on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 3:02pm

Our BM lied like she screwed around...a LOT. There was one time that stands out in my mind just because I caught her on it AND had proof!

It was my DH's winter break parenting time. She called the neutral exchange to tell them the skids had to be back that Thursday night because school started again on Friday. A quick website check to the school calendar proved THAT was a lie.

Then she changed her story. Oh, it wasn't school, it was that SD had a MEET she had to attend. SD said that it was only practice and she didn't HAVE to be there.

DH denied the request and the neutral exchange place realized what kind of a wench we were dealing with.

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Submitted by momandmore on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 3:17pm

Yes it is. It's very sick. She has been "pg" 19 times in the last two years and since she is so special some of them even overlap. Like I sai..she can't have anymore kids. She thought she was making DH jealous.

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Submitted by classyNJ on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 3:26pm

BM and hubby told the SS's that they had to stay with us on St. Patricks day because she was doing a favor for her father and catering a party. The SS's were upset that they couldnt be with their cousins, etc at the annual St. Pats party. My SS16 (was 14 at the time) came out of his room in tears later that night because BM decided it would be a GREAT idea to post pics of herself and her hubby and friends drinking and carrying on in NYC. There was no party to cater. SS called his grandfather. Even posted a picture of the $900 bar bill. Guess she was too stupid to realize she is friends with her sons on FB? They never forgave her.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Fri, 01/23/2015 - 4:59pm

I had an employee like this once. I truly think it's an illness. She could be confronted with facts and still bold faced lie to you about it.

She was tasked with creating a document, which she failed to do in a timely manner. When she turned it in late, I confronted her that it was a document she copied offline. She denied it and claimed it was 100% her material, handwritten by her.

I pointed out that in many places, the document named another business instead of ours. (she couldn't even master Find and Replace apparently) Whoops, she must have been thinking about some *other* business she wrote a similar document for. I pulled up the document she stole on a google search and pointed it out to her.

Still wouldn't confess.

I was lucky. I could fire her, and I did. BTW, she's a crazy BM, too.