So me and my husband have a good marriage of 5 yrs now. He has 3 sons who live with us and I have a dtr who he has fathered since she was 10 mnths old. He's laid back and I am not.The kids age from 14, 13 , 10 and 6 who is the dtr. We also have one on the way who will be arriving first of August 09. The BM is not in the pic but maybe once or twice a year. I have taught them so much as I am proud of from how to shower to respect , how to do chores etc. BUt lately they are changing as many do as young teens and they are breaking my heart.